Interested in Being Involved Post Conception and Need Advice and Support?
Also visit our brand new Sperm 'Donor Dad' Support Network - Coming Soon
This will be linked to the new FSDW Donor Sibbling Registry- launched in 2012. We understand that while you are happy for the child to know of you and to perhaps contact you even before 18 that there are legal concerns regarding the possibility of being sued for child support if you share your 'real' name in a known donor contract. By using the new FSDW Donor Sibbling Registry you can use a secure code- and any correspondence can go through our secure area. Your secure code can also be used on the known donor agreement contract.
Questions the child may have can be answered and if you wish to you can connect directly.
FSDW want to protect and support you as much as we can.
This is also why we ONLY support AI- not just for the recipient but because this also protects YOU.
A sperm donor in the UK is currently being threatened with child support and it will all more or less depend on whether ot not they had sex. If you have sex the law will NOT support your right to NOT support the child. Please make your intention very clear, and help us to help you to do this wonderful thing- reducing the risks.
Become an AI sperm donor or co-parenting donor using the form below- THANK YOU!
All I expect is that you abide by our Behaviour Code
- which has been created to help create and develop a kind, supportive and mutually respectful online community.
FSDW was created in 2003 and since then our WONDERFUL sperm donors have offer their time and best swimmers without
charge
to help others. Often because
they would like to actually
know the sex of children born following successful
sperm donation, or to
receive photos
and cards once a year.
Many donors are now sharing information- such as the Donor Dad Questionnaire- and meeting with the child if he or she wishes - without
parental responsiblities- and known as 'Donor Dad'
Some enter into a co-parenting agreement. Some do not wish to be involved, but are happy to be contacted at 18.
The site offers choices and you can retain privacy until
ready to share emails etc in the secure Members Area.
Most FSDW donor are donating to know they have
helped
create dreams, for
altruistic reasons. Donors tell me
they enjoy donating privately as they can
meet the women they choose to donate to, and can find
suitable
matches with regards to expectations - eg being a known donor, having any involvement post conception etc.
If approved as an FSDW donor you can choose who you
donate to. Registration is of course free- although I reserve the right
to refuse applications - or remove registered donors even when approved, for example
when the behaviour code is not adhered to.
I welcome caring, responsible donors to FSDW-
it's what
FSDW members expect and why the site has such a great reputation.
Our focus is on safe and responsible sperm donation- and in considering the rights and needs of the children born as a result.
Do note that any suggestion of payment or sexual contact will result in your profile deletion.
(Except in Canada - I have been advised that donors and recipients in Canada must be sexual partners
for this purpose. I help you - as consenting adults- to connect, and
can't check on your preferred method- I am however
obliged to pass on the information. If you dont understand this either then please contact them)
Please do include enough information for us to assess it, thanks!
...Whatever you want from this arrangement, simply include this in your profile.
Please note that we do not support anonymous sperm donations through FSDW and this option has now been removed completely. Click Here to Read Why.
...'FSDW help you all connect- you do the rest!'
.If you have any questions please do email us!
OK! Let's get started- Please Register as a FSDW Sperm Donor
FAQ for DONORS
Sperm Donors Worldwide/ Free Sperm Donations are not a sperm bank. Sperm is not sold.
I simply offer an
online meeting place
for single women and couples to connect with the wonderful donors who have registered to donate, knowing
there is a real shortage in sperm banks
around the world, and that many people do not have access to
these sperm banks
- due to cost and other reasons. It is very much like a dating site- but women are looking for
sperm donors and often men
looking to co-parent!
Hundreds of private sperm donors are now registered worldwide and FSDW is apparently the top site for helping
single women,
lesbian and heterosexual couples become pregnant through AI using private donations- all donors
donate without
charge, so its also the least expensive way for our members to become pregnant
through assisted pregnancy!
FSDW listed sperm donors are willing to donate without charge, artificial insemination.
When members and donors find themselves 'a match' they will usually meet at the optimum time (just before ovulation) to
pass over the
fresh sperm. Usually you would have met you face to face before that, to check you have the same expectations.
Members will pay for any tests etc they want-
the arrangement is between you,
we just help you connect!
Some donors are regularly tested, and donate to sperm banks - members will often want to see recent sperm counts
and health certificates. If not its fairly straight forward to find somewhere in your area to be tested
(ask your GP if unsure and
would
rather do this part Obviously our members can only be 100% sure the
sperm is HIV free when its frozen
as
it can take up to 6 months to show up.
Members can buy AI kits through DIY Baby. The site offers free info about
inseminating at best time etc. We do not
advise postage and packaging of fresh sperm. Most of our donors are experienced
in this process, and will be happy
to produce fresh sperm in the next room and give to them to self inseminate, in a very impersonal
and clinical manner. Many of
our members talk about liking the fact that they can actually meet donors, and find out about his
personality etc rather than just statistics- and donors say the same. They want to know who they are potentially fathering-
even it they want no involvement
or contact after conception. If you decide not to donate we just ask that you be sensitive
- and also reply to all
emails even if it is to say
'sorry, I dont think I can help you'.
Some FSDW donors are looking for some type of contact eg a yearly photo
and some are looking to co-parent.
The majority however want no contact after conception. Most donors carry on helping women on a
monthly basis until they become pregnant- which is why you will see (when youve loggd in) that some donors state
'not available at this time'-
its because they
will tend to limit the number of people they are helping at one time.
Within the Members Only area there
is an example of a legal document you can use to state your intentions
- also read the
Legal Pages for more info about private sperm donations and the legal implications, and do your own research
- it varies from
country to country and at the moment many countries do not differentiate between donor sperm and sperm from - for
example- a boyfriend. So the legal document is worth using- free to members and donors
- even though there may be no legal precedent.
I try to put your profiles on public pages so potential members know if there is likely to be someone suitable in the
members
only area before they join. I do this manually myself though so please be patient! Its up to you what you put in your profiles and you can edit them at any time, other than username. As site moderator I am able to use my discretion to edit anything that
may be considered misleading or offensive, and to delete or freeze accounts where complaints are made, or I feel for
some reason this is in the best interest of my members. If you register you understand this, and agree to it.
You also agree to abide by the Behaviour Code.
Members also place wanted ads on the public message boards- so keep an eye on those to see if you think
you can help that person/ couple. If you are looking to co-parent you can ask for a free ad too.
Just email me.
I have donors worldwide, and the payment made by members is converted to their currency by paypal. I charge this
payment to
cover
costs and to be sure everyone who joins is serious about doing so! I also simply can't afford to do this for
free - you can imagine how much time it takes to anwwer the hundreds of emails I get each day about the site, meeting
the needs of children born through sperm donation and fertility in general.
I think FSDW donors are offering a wonderful gift, and
want to know everyone who contacts them has carefully considered
what
they are doing. I regularly receive emails from members letting
me know of successful pregnancies
(some can be seen
on the home page)
and I am keen to keep the site as safe
and helpful as possible- please do send me your suggestions, and feedback regarding contact with
members,
if you decide to register. Thank you!
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